Q&A: I think my best friend jealous of me?

Question by Toocan: I think my best friend jealous of me?
Alright, so I know I have already asked this question here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100115183805AAbHVd6 but I think it was too long and so not many people would read the whole thing, and so I decided to redo it but make it a lot shorter.

So, me and this girl, Marry (changed her name) have been close friends since we were in 5th grade, I have always though of her as a sister. The problem is ever since I’ve gotten into 8th and changed my hair style and clothes she’s been awful rude to me. Sorry to say this, but I am much more better looking and have much more money than her. (I’m just being truthful!!! If you get to this point and stop reading, then you might think I’m a narcissist, so keep reading) By the way we’re in 8th grade.

I always tell to 2 of my best friends that I don’t want to date until college. (one of them is Mary) So one day Mary, another one of my best friends, Mary’s boyfriend, and John (changed his name) and I are hanging out at her apartment lounge. All day, Mary had been talking to John instead of her boyfriend! When it’s time for John to leave Mary goes out to tell him bye. Me and my other best friend want to know what they are going to say so 10 seconds after they leave we follow. I got one way and she goes the other. I see John and then tell him bye, but I wondered what happened to my other best friend, then John asks me out! I tell him I can’t and go back to Mary and the others. I ask Mary if I can speak to her in private and tell her John asked me out. She told me she knew, so I asked her why she hadn’t told me and her response was, “I wanted to tell you so badly, but I told Chris I swore to God that I wouldn’t tell you and well I would rather not tell you that go to Hell!.”
The next week Mary and I go to Church (really youth group) and she tells the whole Church I don’t want to date till I’m in College!!! (that makes me look pretty lame) While people are asking me why I don’t want to date she looks at me and smiles!!!

So Mary, a couple of our friends, and myself are going to her lounge at her apartment. I’m the second one to show up. (her boyfriend’s first) I ask her to open the gate, while having my face one it (by the way this is a hard metal wired gate…so can see through it) She gives me a weird look (maybe I was imagining?) and with her foot, she uses full force to slam the gate open (remember, my face is on it) and I fly backward and fall to the ground on my back!!! (now my face and back hurt!!! I could have died!!!!) When she saw this she started to giggle a bit and then asked if I was ok, while she was giggling!!! (is she a sadist?)

Also everyday she will put some kind of harsh label on me (ex: moron, stupid, idiot, etc…) and whenever she say this, it really hurts, and it doesn’t sound like she’s joking! (I never talk back at her though, cause I’m not very good at comebacks) She hits me too, and when she does it’s not a gentle hit, it’s a hard slap (the kind a person might give a dog while potty training it) Another thing is she cusses at me, a lot!!! (she has a mouth that’s filled with trash!!!)

One time she even pulled my hair to the point I thought it would come out because she was pulling my hair all the way to the ground! So I took her boyfriends hat but right when I was going to give it back to him she started chasing me! I out ran her and gave the hat back to her boyfriend. Then she pulled my hair and was smiling!!! I finally was able to get her hair too and then the group we were with got her off me. Then she grabbed my hair again, and so pulled her legs, in self defense and she slipped.

Ok so I have another problem with her, she copies almost everything I do!!!
The way I eat my food, (I eat my waffle folded with only butter, she use to eat hers with a plate filled with syrup, now it’s the same way I eat it) stuff I wear, (I get my first pair of skinny jeans that are yellow, a week later she gets her first pair of skinny jeans, and they’re yellow) hairstyle, (I get a short haircut over winter break, it’s still winter break and she decides to get the same hair style as me, but her mom couldn’t book a haircut day before winter break so she decides not to get the hair cut, and on the day we come back to school she makes fun of my haircut!!!) and etc..

I am very scared of her. I have thoughts of her beating me up which is why after the pulling hair and fence incidences I don’t sleep over at her house. I’m scared she’ll give me a bloody nose if I confront her! She’s a bully! It’s really scary! Am I possibly overreacting?
I’M SORRY IT’S SOO LONG!!! I REALLY DID TRY TO SHORTEN IT THOUGH!!! SORRY AGAIN!!!

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